How would you feel if your spouse would only check their email/messenger while u were asleep or gone?

Single but involved, living together for almost 2 years. He looks at porn alot, which I don't mind, I will usually sit with him and we look together. But what I do mind is as soon as I go to bed he will log onto his messenger service or check his email. If I happen to get back up and come in the room he minimizes the screen and logs out as soon as he can. He says he isn't doing anything wrong, but I feel that this is suspicious and he is hiding something. There have been a few times I have tried to log into my email and he didn't log out properly and his email was still logged in and when he seen that it was his email, he took the mouse out of my hand and logged out before I could see anything. How would this make you feel?

How would you feel if your spouse would only check their email/messenger while u were asleep or gone?
We both know why he is acting this way.......he has something to hide! Otherwise, he wouldn't care if you saw what was there. If you want to live like this, that's your business, but I choose not to.I would pack my things, and hit the door. Leave him to his secrecy, e-mails, and all the rest......
Reply:I would feel like packing my stuff and leaving. If it's that serious you shouldnt be involved with him. could be illegal or perverted
Reply:Why don`t you tell him you want to see his email if he isn`t hiding anything, my husband was hiding things on the internet too, he was gambling and lost our savings, then he split to keep from telling me, then he took his brothers wife and kids. SO I think I would find out for sure whats going on. don`t wait till your faced with the problems I was faced with, and lose everything you have.
Reply:Sounds like he is having an internet affair or sex. Or, having an affair and they are e mailing each other.
Reply:Honey the relationship is over. My spouce lets me check their E-mail they have nothing to hide. Yours does.

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